June was in her sixties. She had lots of white hair and a radiant smile. She wanted me to dig a ditch and plant a bush. She lived with her husband in a tiny cabin in the woods behind the local Poor Clare convent. June and I hit it off and she asked me to come every Saturday to help. So, in the middle of an environment that was often stressed and negative God gave me an oasis of calm and intelligent peace. I soon learned that June’s daugher was one of the nuns at the convent, and that June and her husband had retired there to be closer to her. It also turned out that June was something called an ‘oblate’ at a Benedictine monastery in Washington DC. It also turned out that June was quite an eminent lady in her own right–a former professor of botany at George Washington U.
I had been brought up in a family that was not anti-Catholic per se, but we certainly thought that Catholics needed to ‘get saved.’ June was the first Catholic I met who took her faith seriously. She never preached to me. In fact, we never discussed religion. All she did was take a real interest in me. She was close to God through a life of deep prayer, and she showed me the unconditional love of God. She never did this in a spectacular way. She simply welcomed me into her life and took an interest in me. When I went to Oxford to study June lent me some money. When I was ordained as a priest she told me that the loan had been ‘paid in full.’ She wrote regularly and said she thought I might be interested in visiting a Benedictine monastery. I took her advice and got in touch with my local monastery in England and paid a visit.
Without my knowing it, June started me on the road to Rome. Through her influence I started to meet lots of Catholics who had a level of faith that was deeper than any I had met before. I encountered the beauty and depth of the monastic tradition. I opened up to new forms of prayer and liturgy. As I entered the Anglican ministry I was on a trajectory that was increasingly Catholic, and when that trajectory finally took me to the banks of the Tiber, June was still there observing my progress. The first book I had published was a collection of English conversion stories called The Path to Rome. On holilday in Greenville, I went to visit June and took the book. By now she was in her nineties, in a nursing home with Parkinsons.
Bright and alert as ever she said, “Dwight, where’s my book?” I had dedicated the book to June, and she took it with pride and said with glowing eyes, “Dwight I’m so glad you’re a Catholic now, and I’m grateful for the book, but we never talked about religion did we?”
“No,” I replied, “we didn’t need to.”
The nuns have asked if I would like to spend there day there for the last part of my ordination retreat.
Thanks for a reflective post on what must be a hectic, if also wonderful, day.
Many congratulations to you Dwight, may God Bless you as you need and as He deems fitting for you.
What a touching a beautiful story. It seems you have a patron in Heaven already. May God Bless you and grant you the necessary graces to be a light unto those around you. Be a good priest your Heavenly patron is watching.
Beautiful!!
Lord Jesus Christ,Son of the living God,by the will of the Fatherand the work of the Holy Spirityour death brought life to the world.By your holy Body and Bloodfree Father Dwight from all his sins,and from every evil.Keep him faithful to your teaching,and never let him be parted from you.——–Fraternally yours in Christ and his Church!
God bless you and your family, Dwight. We are so grateful for your service.
You might want to change “Of course June wasn’t the only person I had helped” to Of course I wasn’t the only person June had helped” and then delete this comment. I would have sent this privately but I didn’t see an e-mail address.
Father Dwight, What a great conversion story. I listened to you recently on Guadalupe Radio in Dallas. Welcome home! I bet you are the first catholic priest who graduated from Bob Jones U. Let’s pray for more!